Hold on!, I heard something…. Oh my God, responsibility and accountability are still alive, they’re buried underneath the rubble of menopause. Hopefully there’s enough air to keep them alive.
Let me explain. a free pass this isn’t! A help guide, it might be .
An entomologist can explain to you why a Praying Mantis eats it’s mate, but it won’t change the fact that even if Mr. Mantis was the perfect partner, he is still going to be lunch! The difference would be that he has been programmed to expect and accept it. He at least had a clue it was coming, even though, you know he forgot about it ….and then she said, I told you about this last week.. then he says.. You did?.. She says Uh huh.. Chomp!!
What the fuck is this cold, short tempered, indifferent stuff being hurled our way? Is the view master stuck? Try as I may, I can’t wrap my head around the reasons for…. I apologize for this, but it’s the most appropriate I can find… the bitchiness. Holding it together for all, except you is hard to swallow. “By reason of insanity” is the term that comes closest to an explanation. People don’t treat people this way. Wait!…regular people don’t, it’s just the married ones who do, the inner circle, those in the bullseye… you!

Imagine a dart board. Without much care or expertise, she can hit the board. It’s relatively easy to hit all but the prized bullseye. To the casual observer, she is totally engaged …. But only to a point. You see, only a dedicated, practiced player can hit the center with regularity.
Your partners board is riddled with hits, or people she comes into contact with in the perimeter. She helps all in the outer circles. To outsiders, she is a master of the game, pulling people up, giving guidance, caring and positive feedback. Yet this master is an amateur at the inside game, with her inner circle. Going for the bullseye has stopped being an option. It’s rarely ever attempted. And to be fair and balanced, you never even liked darts, so you never even bothered to learn how to play…. Ahh, the perfect couple!!